Regrets, No Regrets? Which is it?
I have no regrets….yeah right. I have plenty regrets despite the fact that some advice ends with the quip – “no regrets.” I had some experiences this past weekend that had me dwelling on some of the things that I regret doing/not doing over the last few years – namely the last three. A little over three years ago my life changed. At the time I thought it had changed for the better but as time went on, it changed for the worse. But no regrets right? Here is the deal – I do not regret the decision I made over three years, ago. I DO regret the decisions that I have made since then. There are things that I should have and have not done and I do regret it. I have spent the last year trying to forg(r)et my regrets. Not an easy task. As I found myself in this experience this past weekend, I wondered what if, what if not, what if it were. To be honest, a really good exercise. I can only hope that my regrets enable me to really think about situations that may be regretable moving into the future. I leave you with this:
